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How to Self-Preserve in a Narcissistic Relationship
Self-preservation in a narcissistic relationship.
The Theory of Betrayal Blindness
Betrayal blindness is not allowing yourself to see what is going on, to connect the dots, or to fully engage with reality, because if you did, the information would threaten your relationship with the person who is most important to you.
Narcissistic Family Systems, a Godfather Model
The Creation and Sustaining of the Narcissistic Family System, the Godfather model.
What Do You Do About a Smear Campaign?
Three strategies a narcissist uses: Projection, Savior, Victim. The best defense is no defense.
Should I Stay, or Should I Go?
Should I Stay or Should I Go? Not a one-size fits all answer.
The Connection between People Pleasers and Narcissists
they become less interested in exploring who they want to be and more interested in learning how others want them to be.
Are You Lost In the Abuse? How To Tell and Why it Happens
When I heard the words “lost in the abuse” that was my answer to this last question. I was lost in the incremental, insidious abuse because I was holding up a house of cards. I was trying to keep my family intact. It wasn’t until I was able to get out of the toxic cycle that I began to see things more clearly.