What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NDP)?

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior characterized by self-centeredness, lack of empathy, and an exaggerated sense of self-importance. Cluster B personality disorders documented in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) include antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and histrionic personality disorder. Sometimes NPD is referred to as clinical or pathological narcissism.

What is toxic narcissism?

Toxic narcissism refers to the toxic behaviors exhibited by someone with more abnormal narcissism (see graphic on narcissistic abuse tab). These can include gaslighting, triangulation, denigration and dehumanization of a target, a need for power and control and emotional manipulation.

What is the difference between being self-absorbed and being narcissistic?

Self-absorption is a behavior of narcissism which can be very normal and healthy. When self-absorption looks like a constant need for attention and praise, a lack of empathy or even devaluing another person due to jealousy, it becomes abnormal and can possibly be a sign of clinical narcissism.

What is gaslighting?

Gaslighting is a form of manipulation and emotional abuse. It is insidious, and covert, where the bully or abuser makes the target question their judgments, memories and reality. Ultimately, the of target of gaslighting starts to wonder if they are going crazy.

Should I leave my marriage if I’m married to a narcissist?

If leaving your marriage comes to your mind, you may be at the point where stress is taking a toll on your physical and mental health, everything from ulcers to major depression. Doing the next right thing may be a way for you to not become overwhelmed. Creating an exit strategy may look like confiding in a trusted friend or family member; engaging with a coach or therapist that understands what you’re going through; contacting an attorney for an initial consultation. Building a supportive team is key as you work to get out of the cycle of toxic behaviors or decide to end the relationship with your narcissistic partner.

What are the signs of hidden abuse?

Hidden abuse can include psychological, emotional, religious, and economic. Coercive tactics are a way to control, manipulate and exert power over a target. Behaviors include: gas-lighting, intimidating, bullying, verbal threats, ignoring, criticizing, demeaning, discounting, devaluing, or withholding financial information and resources.

What is financial abuse?

Financial abuse can take several different forms but the ultimate goal is to gain power and control over shared financial resources and assets. It can start out small by giving the target an allowance but can grow into complete control over the money in the relationship where the target has little or no access to what they (and the children) need.

What is emotional manipulation?

Emotional manipulation occurs when a manipulative person seeks to gain power over or victimize someone. Types of emotional manipulation include: passive aggression, triangulation, guilt/sympathy, withholding love or resources, distortion of facts, bullying, comparison, withdrawal, and overwhelming or accelerated closeness.