Narcissist Toxic 12 Traits Quiz
Covert narcissistic abusers are masters of manipulation. To the outside world, they can appear easygoing, carefree and flexible. But being alone with them? That’s a different story. They see it as their story and write the narrative. Abusers are often critical, rigid, and resolute in their conviction that they hold all truth.
If you believe you’re being abused by a narcissist take the Toxic 12 Quiz below to determine if your friend, coworker, or loved one is showing signs of narcissism.
Are You Dealing with a Narcissist?
Narcissists can appear in any aspect of our lives - at school, work, and home. They can be romantic partners, family members, and even appear at work. The Toxic 12 Quiz identifies the key characteristics of a narcissist. When you have a better understanding of what you’re dealing with it’s easier to find a solution and heal from your pain.
12 Signs of Toxic Narcissistic Behavior
To determine if you’re in a relationship with a toxic person or narcissistic abuser, consider which of these behaviors you experience on a regular basis. Each time you answer “yes” give yourself 1 point. If you have five points or more, you’re most likely dealing with a narcissist.
The Toxic 12 Quiz
Does the person always put their needs and priorities first?
Does the toxic person respond in a way that makes you question your own thoughts, memories, and events occurring around you? And yet are the tables turned when you bring up a valid complaint, leading you to forget the issue and focus instead on your own behavior?
If you disagree with an opinion or decision, are you called disloyal, negative or antagonistic?
Are you made to doubt simple actions such as buying a household product at the store?
Do you find yourself taking the blame for things that aren’t your fault?
Do you find yourself apologizing a lot?
When your friends or family members express concerns about what’s happening, do you defend the abuser or come up with excuses for their behavior?
Does this person behave negatively towards you, but pleasant towards others? And, when you ask for the same treatment, are you told you’re the only person who has a problem with them?
Have you lost your identity, ambitions, values, and beliefs?
Do you feel belittled, devalued, or dismissed?
Are you made to feel that you’re too much or not enough?
Is your voice not heard, validated or welcome in the relationship?
Total up your points. If you said “yes” to five or more questions, you’re probably suffering from narcissistic abuse. This isn’t where your journey ends. You have options to lead a better, more fulfilling life.